Tis the Season…To Love

"Tis the season," they say. But have you ever wondered what that really means for each of us?

For me, this festive time of year brings a mix of joy and challenges. My body seems to react to the stress…but more than that, it's a season that highlights the presence - or absence - of loved ones.

This year, more than ever, I've learned not to take time with family and friends for granted. Some I miss deeply, having passed on to Heaven. Others are simply not here. And those who are? I find myself holding on tight, almost afraid to let go.

Have you ever counted on your fingers the people who are there for you, no matter what? I have. But what happens when one of those fingers suddenly represents someone you can no longer reach? It's as if the ground beneath your feet disappears, leaving you feeling insecure and overwhelmed.

In these moments, I'm reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 5:4: "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." What a promise! God is with us, ready to lighten our burdens if we only ask.

You might be wondering, "Can any good come from this pain?" I believe it can. John Piper talks about glorifying God even through pain. He says, to glorify God, “It does not mean to make Him more glorious. It means to acknowledge His glory, and to value it above all things, and to make it known."

This perspective can transform how we view our struggles as it gives hope in time of pain that yes even glorifying God is possible.

Start by being honest - with God and maybe with a trusted friend. Share your insecurities, doubts, and fears. Bringing these thoughts into the light can make them feel lighter and more bearable. It's a way of living faithfully, allowing God's light to shine through our cracks.

John 10:10 says, "The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I have come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." Jesus came as a baby so we could experience true joy, even in the midst of our pain.

So this season, I encourage you to embrace the joy of those who are with you, while also acknowledging the ache for those who aren't. Give that burden to God. Choose gratitude. Choose to love. Love Jesus for what He's done, and love others as the precious gifts they are.

After all, 'tis the season to love, isn't it? And in that love, we might just find the healing and hope we've been looking for.